Curry went down a treat tonight!
Drool away if you dare!
Starters: Vegetarian Samosas and Spicy Prawns, with a yoghurt mint dip….
Main course: Pork Dopiaza, Sag Aloo, Rajma Dal and Basmati Rice… with Cucumber Raita and Tomato/Onion/Coriander chutney
Dessert: Spiced Peaches with vanilla ice cream
All accompanied with wine (Lidl !), intelligent conversation, silly conversation and lots of laughter, especially as we were watching the finals of Britain’s Got Talent (Hah!).
This evening I cooked for two couples who have been constant in our lives for the past 8 years. We do not see them often as they do not live too close but, as I have said, they are constant. This is what I call friendship. We can count our total friends out here on maybe, two or three hands, we have many acquaintances and people that we know but our friends are select and small in number – reliable and caring and constant.
These friends are in our age group and, like us, have seen those that come to La Belle France and then go elsewhere because they could not cope.
We can talk about old films, television programmes, rock stars, politicians etc. without getting blank looks.
We can laugh about the past, present and future.
We can discuss our pets, children, aching bones, prospective by-passes, types of coffins (just in case!) current medication etc..
We can compare our grandchildren and their schooling, their teachers and teaching methods, how our elderly parents are coping and whether one should bend over when you have a little wind!
We can laugh about the E-mail jokes that pass between us that are now related to either the past, elderly health or even our demise.
What joy!
Thank you J & D, L & C you brought some sunshine into our lives this evening.
The menu sounds great and the friendships even more so. There's nothing like an evening spent with friends of your own-age group, You described all the benefits perfectly. :-)
ReplyDeleteMouth is watering!
ReplyDeleteAnd how right you are about constancy....
For me 'breaking bread' and conversation with friends is a like holy ritual that brings meaning and richness to our lives. Your food sounds heavenly, too!
ReplyDeleteThank you ladies, I must admit I was very proud of my efforts and - bonus - we both found the company positive!!
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